Warning.....may contain language that some readers find objectionable. It also may contain names of people that some of you may still be connected to. If some of you wish to remove me that's fine.********************************************************
Seems the drama llamas have visited and shit all over my page.
Seems the drama llamas have visited and shit all over my page.
Do not mud wrestle with a pig. You both get dirty but the pig enjoys it. That was one of my grandmother's favorite things to say. That's what it's felt like the last few days. I posted a question to ONE person I'm no longer connected to. A 2nd former contact chimed in with her $0.02, even though it was not directed at her. That led to a rather heated exchange through PMs. I thought I had a reasonable expectation that certain former contacts would exit gracefully and leave me in peace. That has not been my reality.
1. Back in Feb. Cherei (mamabearcherei) got her panties in a wad over the fact that she was not the first person I told about our accident. This was her comment:
Do not call my honor into question? Not a very smart thing to do without KNOWING me. Look in the mirror before doing that. I may not have been raised on a rez but I do know what it's like to be a city NDN. We are not like the idealized stereotype in Hollywood movies, we are not "noble savages", we are just like everyone else and have the same problems and concerns.....
I'm tired, frustrated, aggravated, annoyed, pissed, irritated...you name it. If this is rambling....sorry, it's been a long, rough weekend.
I guess one main point I would like to make specifically to Cherei and Stilly:
My world does NOT revolve around you, your wants, needs, desires, etc. It revolves around TJ, Daddy, Aunt Gene, Michele (who for your information IS blood related) and the rest of my blood family. They come first.
My grandmother always told me guilty dogs bark the loudest. I need earplugs.
1. Back in Feb. Cherei (mamabearcherei) got her panties in a wad over the fact that she was not the first person I told about our accident. This was her comment:
I told a few close friends and family 
I FULLY understand.
I was removed as a contact and blocked. I was never given an opportunity to resolve any issues. I eventually blocked her from my page. Recently I started seeing her husband's account in the viewing history....more than once and there was no legitimate reason that he should be there. She was witnessed logging out or using his account to visit pages. The person who actually saw her do this related it to me. I don't have a PhD but it seems obvious, given previous history, that she was back on my page even though I'm "dead to her". I have stayed away from her page and tried not to visit/comment on any friend's page right behind her so as to avoid contact. I left her alone and I expected the same.
2. Back a few months ago on the Real Life photo group a theme was posted...we got a couple of entries then a comment from Stilly saying something to the effect of...she was going to the Shelby County Tea Party and would post when she got back. I sent what I thought was a polite PM letting her know that this wasn't the place for that and that I would be deleting the comment. All that had to be said was something like this....I have somewhere to go, I have a prior commitment, etc and I'll post when I get back. Personally I don't care what political party anyone belongs to or what your beliefs are, the PHOTO group is NOT the place to announce Tea Parties, religious meetings, spam etc....it IS the place to share our photos and experience. I HAVE removed other members for spamming and disruptive behavior and language. I did NOT remove Stilly, she removed herself and then after trying to make her understand why and going round and round because she kept bringing in people who were not involved in any of it and other totally unrelated issues, she removed me. This week she showed up on the Note I wrote about Cherei lurking around and made a comment. I had NOT even mentioned Stilly or even inferred it was her. I sent a PM asking what was the difference between "lurking, peeking or being curious" as she put it and why continue to sneak around someone's page you aren't connected to? BIG mistake.....for someone who claims to be Christian, the comments and accusations are not very becoming. Telling me to use Scooter & Shelby's page to "call Cherei out" in a message....that page is for my Labs, I do NOT use it to hide behind. She claims to also NOT know that Cherei had blocked me....I have a PM from 2/12/09 where she mentions multiple times about Cherei blocking me. Now she says she never knew it. Bullshit. I have the PMs saved. I have all the contradictions in print. I can post them if necessary.
I was removed as a contact and blocked. I was never given an opportunity to resolve any issues. I eventually blocked her from my page. Recently I started seeing her husband's account in the viewing history....more than once and there was no legitimate reason that he should be there. She was witnessed logging out or using his account to visit pages. The person who actually saw her do this related it to me. I don't have a PhD but it seems obvious, given previous history, that she was back on my page even though I'm "dead to her". I have stayed away from her page and tried not to visit/comment on any friend's page right behind her so as to avoid contact. I left her alone and I expected the same.
2. Back a few months ago on the Real Life photo group a theme was posted...we got a couple of entries then a comment from Stilly saying something to the effect of...she was going to the Shelby County Tea Party and would post when she got back. I sent what I thought was a polite PM letting her know that this wasn't the place for that and that I would be deleting the comment. All that had to be said was something like this....I have somewhere to go, I have a prior commitment, etc and I'll post when I get back. Personally I don't care what political party anyone belongs to or what your beliefs are, the PHOTO group is NOT the place to announce Tea Parties, religious meetings, spam etc....it IS the place to share our photos and experience. I HAVE removed other members for spamming and disruptive behavior and language. I did NOT remove Stilly, she removed herself and then after trying to make her understand why and going round and round because she kept bringing in people who were not involved in any of it and other totally unrelated issues, she removed me. This week she showed up on the Note I wrote about Cherei lurking around and made a comment. I had NOT even mentioned Stilly or even inferred it was her. I sent a PM asking what was the difference between "lurking, peeking or being curious" as she put it and why continue to sneak around someone's page you aren't connected to? BIG mistake.....for someone who claims to be Christian, the comments and accusations are not very becoming. Telling me to use Scooter & Shelby's page to "call Cherei out" in a message....that page is for my Labs, I do NOT use it to hide behind. She claims to also NOT know that Cherei had blocked me....I have a PM from 2/12/09 where she mentions multiple times about Cherei blocking me. Now she says she never knew it. Bullshit. I have the PMs saved. I have all the contradictions in print. I can post them if necessary.
Do not call my honor into question? Not a very smart thing to do without KNOWING me. Look in the mirror before doing that. I may not have been raised on a rez but I do know what it's like to be a city NDN. We are not like the idealized stereotype in Hollywood movies, we are not "noble savages", we are just like everyone else and have the same problems and concerns.....
I'm tired, frustrated, aggravated, annoyed, pissed, irritated...you name it. If this is rambling....sorry, it's been a long, rough weekend.
I guess one main point I would like to make specifically to Cherei and Stilly:
My world does NOT revolve around you, your wants, needs, desires, etc. It revolves around TJ, Daddy, Aunt Gene, Michele (who for your information IS blood related) and the rest of my blood family. They come first.
My grandmother always told me guilty dogs bark the loudest. I need earplugs.
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